{"id":86,"date":"2012-06-30T17:00:25","date_gmt":"2012-06-30T17:00:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/scriebine.ro\/?p=86"},"modified":"2019-11-27T11:09:15","modified_gmt":"2019-11-27T11:09:15","slug":"iesi-din-multimea-mediocra-vorbind-romaneste","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/scriebine.ro\/?p=86","title":{"rendered":"Ie\u0219i din mul\u021bimea mediocr\u0103 prin felul cum te exprimi!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva ore de munc\u0103, \u00eemi iau o scurt\u0103 pauz\u0103 \u0219i ies s\u0103 socializez cu 2 colege, Maria \u0219i Ioana.<\/p>\n<p>Maria a venit prima la \u201e\u00eent\u00e2lnire\u201d \u0219i, din vorb\u0103 \u00een vorb\u0103, am ajuns la un subiect problematic, dar care pe mine m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103, \u0219i anume cum este maltratat\u0103 limba rom\u00e2n\u0103 de c\u0103tre unii vorbitori nativi. \u00cemi povestea c\u0103 o deranja folosirea incorect\u0103 a lui \u201edec\u00e2t\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen timp ce-mi spunea \u00eenver\u0219unat\u0103 c\u00e2t de mult o enerveaz\u0103 asta, apare \u0219i Ioana pe care o punem \u00een tem\u0103 cu ce discut\u0103m noi.<\/p>\n<p>Ea ne-a ascultat \u0219i a exclamat deodat\u0103: \u201eFrate, at\u00e2t putem, at\u00e2t facem!!!!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>De c\u00e2te ori, oare, nu am auzit asta? De c\u00e2te ori nu ai auzit TU asta? Apoi a \u00eenceput s\u0103 se pl\u00e2ng\u0103 de c\u00e2t de nenorocit\u0103 e via\u021ba ei \u0219i c\u00e2t de r\u0103u se tr\u0103ie\u0219te \u00een Rom\u00e2nia.<\/p>\n<p>O ascultam \u0219i m\u0103 \u00eentrebam: nu \u0219tie c\u0103 g\u00e2ndurile se transform\u0103 \u00een ac\u021biuni? \u201e At\u00e2t putem, at\u00e2t facem, asta suntem noi, rom\u00e2nii\u201d, spune ea \u0219i mi-a t\u0103iat firul. Nici m\u0103car nu am mai zis c\u0103 exist\u0103, totu\u0219i, o solu\u021bie la problem\u0103 ei lingvistic\u0103. \u0218i, nu, nu trebuie s\u0103-\u0219i cumpere tone de c\u0103r\u021bi de gramatic\u0103 a limbii rom\u00e2ne s-o ia de la cap\u0103t, pentru a \u0219ti cum s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 scrie corect.<\/p>\n<p>Trebuie doar s\u0103 fie con\u0219tient\u0103 de ce spune, trebuie s-o intereseze s\u0103 schimbe ceva la atitudinea ei fa\u021b\u0103 de limba nativ\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Ea s-a resemnat. Nu o mai intereseaz\u0103 cum vorbe\u0219te sau cum scrie, cum g\u00e2nde\u0219te, ce \u00ee\u0219i spune pentru a-\u0219i \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021bi stilul de via\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i-a impus o limit\u0103 pe care a pus-o pe seama celor din jur \u0219i se simte nefericit\u0103.<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/scriebine.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/06\/old1.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-92\" title=\"old\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/scriebine.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/06\/old1.jpg\" width=\"259\" height=\"194\" \/><\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201eP\u0103i, c\u00e2nd am terminat noi generala? C\u0103 atunci am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat gramatic\u0103. \u00cen clasa a VIII-a\u201d, zice ea.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bun. \u0218i, de-atunci, gata? Nu mai vorbe\u0219ti corect? E drept c\u0103 rom\u00e2na nu e o limb\u0103 u\u0219oar\u0103 (de aceea \u00eei \u0219i apreciez pe str\u0103inii care \u00ee\u0219i dau silin\u021ba s\u0103 prind\u0103 ceva-ceva rom\u00e2n\u0103. De pl\u0103cere sau de nevoie. \u00cens\u0103 spun \u201emul\u021bumesc\u201d, \u00een loc de \u201ethank you\u201d, \u201e merci\u201d, \u201e gracias\u201d etc.), dar&#8230; totu\u0219i&#8230; s\u0103 spunem c\u0103 e o provocare atunci.<br \/>\nDe fapt, eu v\u0103d toat\u0103 chestia asta cu corectitudinea gramatical\u0103 (care, pentru unii, e un fel de nebuloas\u0103 sau, mai r\u0103u, un bau-bau care \u00eei urm\u0103re\u0219te) ca un proces. Iar fiecare proces \u00eencepe cu o funda\u021bie bine cl\u0103dit\u0103. \u0218i totul \u00eencepe \u00een mintea ta.<\/p>\n<p>Atunci c\u00e2nd auzi pe cineva c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi spune: \u201eE doar sau numai, nu dec\u00e2t\u201d (ori o alt\u0103 regul\u0103), ai mai multe variante:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00a0<strong>Fie te ui\u021bi ur\u00e2t<\/strong> la acea persoan\u0103 \u0219i-i spui: \u201eBine c\u0103 e\u0219ti tu de\u0219tept, Grammar Nazi ce e\u0219ti!!\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u00a0<strong>Fie te scuzi<\/strong> c\u0103 nu ai mai f\u0103cut gramatic\u0103 din clasa a VIII-a \u0219i ai fost ocupat cu alte lucruri, mai \u201eimportante\u201d, cum ar fi s\u0103 te pl\u00e2ngi.<\/li>\n<li>\u00a0<strong>Fie deschizi bine ochii<\/strong>, \u00eei mul\u021bume\u0219ti respectivei persoane \u0219i, eventual, o \u00eentrebi de ce se spune \u201edoar eu sunt aici\u201d \u0219i nu \u201edec\u00e2t eu sunt aici\u201d. \u00cencepi s\u0103 devii con\u0219tient c\u0103 \u0219i acest aspect trebuie s\u0103-l pui la punct \u00een via\u021ba ta ca multe altele, de fapt.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Al treilea punct se refer\u0103 la momentul c\u00e2nd \u00a0vei fi pus \u00een fa\u021ba faptului \u00eemplinit \u0219i va trebui s\u0103 \u00eenchegi 2 fraze care s\u0103 sune a rom\u00e2n\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 fii nesigur pe tine \u00een privin\u021ba a ceea ce spui\/scrii \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021bi ca un papagal mecanic.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mai vrei un motiv pentru care ai ciuli bine urechile?<\/strong> Ei, bine, poate ai norocul de a da de un angajator care, la interviu, nu te \u00eentreab\u0103 unde te vezi peste cinci ani, ci \u00ee\u021bi d\u0103 un pix \u0219i o foaie de h\u00e2rtie \u0219i \u00ee\u021bi spune s\u0103 scrii: \u201eFii bucuros, nu fi fericit\u201d. A\u0219a-i c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi trece toat\u0103 via\u021ba prin fa\u021ba ochilor \u0219i ai o mie de noduri \u00een g\u00e2t? Scrii, \u0219tergi, te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti \u0219i acum o chemi \u00een g\u00e2nd pe profa de rom\u00e2n\u0103 s\u0103-\u021bi \u0219opteasc\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen alt\u0103 ordine de idei, stai lini\u0219tit! Nimeni nu e perfect. \u00ce\u021bi trebuie doar voin\u021b\u0103 \u0219i curiozitate, dar \u0219i dorin\u021b\u0103 de a trece la un alt nivel, de a te autodep\u0103\u0219i.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m \u00eempreun\u0103, tu de la mine \u0219i eu de la tine. \u0218i descifr\u0103m \u00eempreun\u0103 tainele limbii rom\u00e2ne pentru a avea libertate de a ne juca cu cuvintele, pentru a avea claritate \u0219i pentru a ne ridica stima de sine.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 comunic\u0103m. A devenit un cli\u0219eu propozi\u021bia aceasta. Nu e ciudat s\u0103 tot vorbim despre comunicare c\u00e2nd ea e pe cale de dispari\u021bie? Iar atunci c\u00e2nd suntem fa\u021b\u0103-n fa\u021b\u0103 cu o persoan\u0103 care ne d\u0103 \u0219i o alt\u0103 variant\u0103 dec\u00e2t cea pe care o \u0219tim noi, ne transform\u0103m \u00een arici, devenim reticen\u021bi \u0219i atac\u0103m.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen final, eu \u00ee\u021bi dau PRIMUL \u00a0PAS din seria numero\u0219ilor pa\u0219i cu care te vei \u00eent\u00e2lni pe acest blog.<\/p>\n<p>Identific\u0103 oamenii pe care vrei s\u0103-i ai al\u0103turi din diverse domenii. Las\u0103 m\u00e2ndria \u0219i<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/scriebine.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/06\/crowd.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright\" title=\"crowd\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/scriebine.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/06\/crowd-300x300.jpg\" width=\"190\" height=\"194\" \/><\/a>reticen\u021ba la o parte \u0219i spune \u201emul\u021bumesc\u201d pentru c\u0103 te-a corectat (dac\u0103 a fost nevoie de acest lucru) \u0219i \u00eentreab\u0103:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; De ce se spune a\u0219a, \u0219i nu cum \u0219tiu eu? Apoi, fii atent la cum folose\u0219ti tu, mai departe, informa\u021biile primite.<\/p>\n<p><strong>p.s. Dac\u0103 nu e\u0219ti mul\u021bumit de ceea ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u00een via\u021ba ta, \u00eencepe cu un pas m\u0103runt. Cu un CUV\u00c2NT. \u00a0Apoi cu o propozi\u021bie, dup\u0103 care treci la structuri mai complexe, cum ar fi frazele. Lucrurile aparent m\u0103runte fac diferen\u021ba! \u0218i acest fapt nu e valabil doar \u00een exprimare, ci se aplic\u0103 \u00een via\u021ba ta, \u00een general!\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<div><strong>\u00a0p.p.s. \u00cemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219e\u0219te cu mine o nel\u0103murire pe care o ai \u00een privin\u021ba limbii rom\u00e2ne. \u0218i, \u00een cel mai scurt timp, ai \u0219i rezolvarea!\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Cu drag,<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Vio<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva ore de munc\u0103, \u00eemi iau o scurt\u0103 pauz\u0103 \u0219i ies s\u0103 socializez cu 2 colege, Maria \u0219i Ioana. Maria a venit prima la \u201e\u00eent\u00e2lnire\u201d \u0219i, din vorb\u0103 \u00een vorb\u0103, am ajuns la un subiect problematic, dar care pe mine m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103, \u0219i anume cum este maltratat\u0103 limba rom\u00e2n\u0103 de c\u0103tre unii vorbitori nativi. 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