{"id":237,"date":"2012-07-14T21:08:13","date_gmt":"2012-07-14T21:08:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/scriebine.ro\/?p=237"},"modified":"2020-03-07T21:05:33","modified_gmt":"2020-03-07T19:05:33","slug":"grammar-nazi-un-rau-necesar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/scriebine.ro\/?p=237","title":{"rendered":"\u201eGrammar Nazi\u201d \u2013 un r\u0103u necesar?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>\u00cen momentul \u00een care \u00ee\u021bi scriu, sunt peste 30 de grade (aer irespirabil afar\u0103), iar eu ar fi trebuit s\u0103 fiu deja \u00een lumea viselor l\u00e2ng\u0103 o ap\u0103 care s\u0103-mi confere termic confortul necesar. Revenind, chiar a\u0219a am f\u0103cut. Cu cinci minute \u00eenainte s\u0103 m\u0103 apuc de scris, dar azi am avut o discu\u021bie despre ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 fii Grammar Nazi. \u0218i tot \u00eemi veneau cuvintele \u00een minte, a\u0219a c\u0103 am zis s\u0103 le \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219esc \u0219i cu voi.<\/p>\n

Ei, de c\u00e2nd am \u00eenceput s\u0103 fiu cunoscut\u0103 datorit\u0103 afinit\u0103\u021bii mele pentru gramatic\u0103, am devenit un fel de bau-bau. La \u00eenceput, m-am mai potolit. Apoi, am re\u00eenceput timid s\u0103 le spun oamenilor c\u0103 nu se spune \u201evise\u201d c\u00e2nd \u00a0e vorba de \u201evisuri\u201d (acele \u021beluri pe care \u021bi le fixezi pentru o perioad\u0103 de timp \u0219i pe care vrei s\u0103 le atingi). Desigur, visele pot deveni visuri, dar nu e o regul\u0103 general\u0103. Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 simt vinovat\u0103 pentru faptul c\u0103 \u0219tiu aceast\u0103 diferen\u021b\u0103 \u00eentre cuvinte.<\/p>\n

V\u0103z\u00e2nd reac\u021bia celorlal\u021bi, am \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreb: ce e \u00een neregul\u0103 cu ei? Ce e \u00een neregul\u0103 cu mine? S\u0103 \u0219tii s\u0103 vorbe\u0219ti corect propria-\u021bi limb\u0103 e un lucru chiar at\u00e2t de r\u0103u? Mai r\u0103u dec\u00e2t s\u0103 fii lene\u0219, dar s\u0103 te \u0219i pl\u00e2ngi c\u0103 nimeni nu-\u021bi d\u0103 \u0219i nu te ajut\u0103?<\/p>\n

Dup\u0103 o vreme de fr\u0103m\u00e2nt\u0103ri de acest fel, am \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 observ. Atunci c\u00e2nd te observi, \u00eencepi s\u0103-\u021bi schimbi comportamentul \u0219i am devenit mai rezervat\u0103. Nu mai interveneam dec\u00e2t atunci c\u00e2nd era absolut necesar sau c\u00e2nd eram \u00eentrebat\u0103. \u00cens\u0103 un lucru curios s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat. Au \u00eenceput s\u0103 vin\u0103 ceilal\u021bi spre mine \u0219i s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentrebe. S\u0103-mi dea telefon \u0219i s\u0103 m\u0103 roage s\u0103 le corectez ceva, recunosc\u00e2nd, \u00een cele din urm\u0103, c\u0103 lor nu le-a prea pl\u0103cut limba rom\u00e2n\u0103 \u0219i \u0219tiau c\u0103 au lacune la acest capitol. Evident, eu \u00eei ajutam cu pl\u0103cere. A\u0219a cum o fac mereu.<\/p>\n

Dar am stat \u0219i m-am \u00eentrebat: de unde a ap\u0103rut aceast\u0103 schimbare? \u0218tii, am reflectat mult asupra acestui subiect. De ce o persoan\u0103 care este preocupat\u0103 de lingvistic\u0103 este at\u00e2t de blamat\u0103?<\/p>\n

Uite care e viziunea mea fa\u021b\u0103 de aceasta: nu v\u0103d nicio diferen\u021b\u0103 \u00eentre cineva care poart\u0103 haine de firm\u0103, ceas de 10.000 de euro, are un p\u0103l\u0103\u021bel cu vreo opt camere \u0219i o ma\u0219in\u0103 scump\u0103-n fa\u021ba casei, dar, cu fiecare ocazie ap\u0103rut\u0103, are pantofii murdari de noroi sau sub unghii are mizerie \u0219i o persoan\u0103 care transmite un mesaj \u0219i maltrateaz\u0103 limba rom\u00e2n\u0103 (excep\u021bie fac str\u0103inii, de\u0219i unii str\u0103ini cunosc mai bine rom\u00e2na decat rom\u00e2nii:) ).<\/p>\n

De c\u00e2\u021biva ani, de c\u00e2nd am luat contact cu dezvoltarea personal\u0103, am tot \u00eent\u00e2lnit oameni care s\u0103-\u0219i doreasc\u0103 \u0219i ei s\u0103 creasc\u0103. S\u0103 evolueze.<\/p>\n

Ei, \u00een viziunea mea, a vorbi corect reprezint\u0103 o latur\u0103 a acestei dezvolt\u0103ri. \u0218i pentru toate laturile pe care vrei tu s\u0103 le \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021be\u0219ti, exist\u0103 cineva care te poate \u00eendruma, cineva care s-a \u00eent\u00e2lnit cu situa\u021biile prin care treci tu acum.<\/p>\n

Pentru latura spiritual\u0103 \u00eei avem pe mae\u0219trii spirituali, pentru bolile fizice \u00eei avem pe medici, pentru problemele lingvistice \u00eei avem pe filologi, cei pasiona\u021bi de armonia dintre litere.<\/p>\n

Consider\u0103 c\u0103 este doar o unealt\u0103 \u00een evolu\u021bia ta. A\u0219a cum e gestionarea timpului. Sau descoperirea voca\u021biei.<\/p>\n

\u00cens\u0103 cum zicea \u0219i unul dintre mentorii mei, Pera Novacovici (fondatorul comunit\u0103\u021bii Personalitatea Alfa), p\u00e2n\u0103 nu te doare, nu ie\u0219i dup\u0103 pastile s\u0103-\u021bi treac\u0103 durerea de din\u021bi.<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 nu vorbe\u0219ti corect \u0219i nimeni \u00een jur nu este deranjat de acest fapt, nu te doare fizic, nu \u00ee\u021bi pas\u0103, iar c\u00e2nd cineva te corecteaz\u0103, te enervezi.<\/p>\n

Iar 90% dintre cei pe care i-am \u00eentrebat de ce nu le pas\u0103 cum vorbesc au dat vina pe \u0219coal\u0103 \u0219i pe profesoara de rom\u00e2n\u0103. Hai s\u0103-\u021bi mai zic un exemplu: \u00een \u0219coal\u0103, mul\u021bi inventeaz\u0103 tot felul de motive pentru a nu merge la ora de sport. Dar, dup\u0103 ce termin\u0103 \u0219coala, se apuc\u0103 de sal\u0103, de alergat, de mers pe jos, pentru c\u0103 \u0219i-au dat seama c\u0103 e important. Pentru ei \u0219i pentru a \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021bi raportul cu sexul opus.<\/p>\n

\u0218tii, am primit s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2na aceasta un mesaj de la o student\u0103 la Marketing \u0219i am auzit ceva foarte interesant. Zicea a\u0219a acea persoan\u0103: \u201eEu am terminat Marketing… \u0219i unii profesori la examene ne t\u0103iau un punct dac\u0103 aveam gre\u0219eli gramaticale, de exprimare.\u201d<\/p>\n

M-am bucurat s\u0103 aud aceasta \u0219i c\u0103 mai exist\u0103 \u0219i al\u021bi \u201enebuni\u201d care \u201e\u00eendr\u0103znesc\u201d s\u0103 dezvolte latura aceasta a personalit\u0103\u021bii unei persoane.<\/p>\n

A\u0219adar, dac\u0103 e\u0219ti interesat de dezvoltarea ta personal\u0103, nu neglija acest aspect din via\u021ba ta. Nici nu ai idee c\u00e2t conteaz\u0103 s\u0103 \u0219tii cum s\u0103 te exprimi, cum s\u0103 ai tonul potrivit, cum s\u0103 accentuezi cuvintele, cum s\u0103 adaugi sare \u0219i piper personalit\u0103\u021bii tale. Din start, c\u00e2\u0219tigi c\u00e2teva puncte la imaginea ta, iar cei din jur nu mai fac efortul s\u0103-\u021bi corecteze gre\u0219elile de gramatic\u0103 \u00een g\u00e2nd, c\u00e2nd vorbe\u0219ti, ci le transmi\u021bi mesajul pe care voiai s\u0103-l dai.<\/p>\n

Ie\u0219i \u00een eviden\u021b\u0103 \u00eentr-un mod pozitiv \u0219i te vei face remarcat \u00eentr-o mul\u021bime de persoane care spun \u201eSunt dec\u00e2t eu aici.\u201d Crede-m\u0103 pe cuv\u00e2nt!<\/p>\n

O s\u0103-\u021bi mai spun o \u00eent\u00e2mplare pe care am auzit-o de la o prieten\u0103 \u0219i te las s\u0103 te \u00eentorci la treburile tale. Mi-a zis de o conversa\u021bie \u00eentre ea \u0219i altcineva, \u00een care concluzia a fost urm\u0103toarea: Wow, tu \u0219tii s\u0103 folose\u0219ti corect \u201edec\u00e2t\u201d? :))<\/p>\n

C\u00e2nd am auzit istorioara, m-am amuzat teribil, dar am r\u0103mas \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 cuvinte.<\/p>\n

\u00cen \u00eencheiere, care-i PRIMUL PAS pe care trebuie s\u0103-l faci? F\u0103-\u021bi o list\u0103 cu gre\u0219elile\u00a0pe care\u00a0ceilal\u021bi le observ\u0103 la tine \u0219i fii atent dac\u0103 se repet\u0103 sau nu.<\/p>\n

Las\u0103-mi un comentariu cu p\u0103rerea ta despre conceptul \u201eGrammar Nazi\u201d. Fie \u00eel iube\u0219ti, fie \u00eel ur\u0103\u0219ti, nu cred s\u0103 existe cale de mijloc.<\/p>\n

Cu drag,<\/p>\n

Vio<\/p>\n

p.s.\u00a0\u00a0Voi reveni \u0219i cu alte exemple pe care le voi culege din jur despre impactul pe care \u00eel poate avea asupra imaginii tale felul \u00een care te exprimi fie oral, fie \u00een scris.<\/p>\n\n\n

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\u00cen momentul \u00een care \u00ee\u021bi scriu, sunt peste 30 de grade (aer irespirabil afar\u0103), iar eu ar fi trebuit s\u0103 fiu deja \u00een lumea viselor l\u00e2ng\u0103 o ap\u0103 care s\u0103-mi confere termic confortul necesar. Revenind, chiar a\u0219a am f\u0103cut. 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